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Human Nature Is The Same

I have largely stayed away from commenting or holding any opinion on the ongoing shenanigans of the US political landscape for two reasons. First, I do not understand it enough to hold an opinion. Secondly, I am not willing to have my time invested in its understanding (yet). However, the event that led up to the mobs taking over the Capitol is something I will like to take a few lessons from.

It is easy to think a divide of the human race is more well behaved, ethically sound and self-controlled than the other simply because their country is more beautiful, organized and rich. The #EndSars protest in Nigeria comes to mind here. Hoodlums hijacked the protest to do all forms of atrocities, breaking into the Oba Palace and carrying his symbol of authority away is relevant here. I imagined hearing some people saying in their mind, “this can only be in Nigeria”.

Well, the event of the Capitol Hill would have us believe otherwise. In fact, the history of human evolution from either from hunter-gatherer or Adam will not agree.

Human is fundamentally the same. We are all driven by the same desire, emotion and passion. What is even most interesting is that if you pay attention enough, everywhere you turn to, you will see the pattern.

In a recent interview appearance by Ram Parameswaran on Invest Like The Best podcast, Ram a legendary investor said this: “human nature is the same, whether you live in America, Western Europe, India, or China, you’re the same person, you want to eat food, you want to buy your groceries, you want to get stuff from a shop, it is the same thing”. It has always been the same thing, you just may not know. And your location, or position in that location doesn’t change that.

René Girard developed the idea of mimetics. He said, “human beings are creatures of mimicry. We are evolutionarily supercharged to do one thing better than anyone else: learn by watching and copying others. And the most important thing we learn is how to want.” René Girard is calling our attention to another common denominator behaviour of human. We are creatures of mimicry, he said. We want things because others want them. And when that behaviour continues, it creates scarcity while other things follow.

The point here is simple. Every corner that you look at, every mountain top that you gaze at and every valley that you step into, there are fundamental human behaviours that will always surface. Greed, love, insatiable desire, hope, sex, mimetic, hunger and many more. East, west, south and north, humans remain the same. Don’t ever think environmental conditions of wealth, development, poverty and so on will make this change. After centuries, humans are still asking if they are supposed to be their brother keeper and we are still eating the fruit from the forbidden tree. It has always been and it will continue to be.

Where does this knowledge leave us?

It does help us in a lot of things.

1. Picking more from the insight that Ram shared, it means as an international investor (he is one) when you get to a new market, you start your learning about the market with these universal common denominators. You know we all want to eat, have sex and make money. Is your company helping us achieve any of these fundamental desires and on what scale? What part of the fundamental nature of human is your business catering for and how urgently do we want to accomplish those desires? Upwork and Fiverr have seen a good upsurge globally simply because of this. We all want to make money and that is exactly what these platforms offer us. You bet they will succeed and you will bet right.

2. When you are negotiating this knowledge also comes in handy. Just as you want to win, the other party wants to win as well. There is no doubt about that. Otherwise, the party would have agreed to your terms immediately or even neglect your bid. The next task for you is to find out what their definition of winning is and what you are ready to sacrifice to ensure a win-win scenario. We are all the same.

Read more about negotiation here – What’s In It For Me? – Become A Better Negotiator

3. It helps when designing incentives either as a company or as an individual or a country. People will only respond to an incentive that appeals to them.

These are just 3 few ideas of the innumerable implication of that fact that came to my mind. The principle is what you should keep to mind and never be caught by surprise again.

Success Compounds

Have you noticed that it’s much easier to get ”another” success once you get the first one?

A common denominator of all humans is the desire to attain their goals which can then be interpreted as success. However, many struggle to achieve these goals because of an endless reason. Yet, a pattern that has been obvious throughout history shows that success in one area attracts or makes success easier in another area. It is only alarming that not everyone is aware of this pattern, hence, very few leverage it.

Our goal more often than not is to move from your zero (no success) to one (first success). Then the universe will show you her abundance.

Such movement isn’t always easy. Many times, it requires us doing things outside of our comfort zone, going the extra mile, failing a lot on the way and even failing to attain one from zero. It’s a cruel process that our nature isn’t wired for. Moving from no-success to first success requires investment in perseverance, hard work, and faith. Very few are ready to make such investment.

Yet, it’s the way of life. It’s the only way to play the game of life that we find ourselves.

Think about it yourself, would rather click a like on a Tweet with 1,000 likes already or on a Tweet with 10 like? Would you rather work with someone who’s been accorded the best in an endeavor or someone who is just setting our with no track record? Would you rather follow an account with 10 followers or follow an account with 10,000 followers?

Your answer to the above question is the reason for the following assertions:

  • Getting a second job is easier than the first.
  • Raising the second round of funding is easier than the first.
  • Getting your next 10,000 customers is easier than the first 1,000
  • Selling your next 10 products is easier than selling the first.

Our goal is to doggedly focus on having the first success. Moving from zero (no success) to one (first success).

The universe is abundantly rich and has more than enough to go round for all, but it needs you to speak her language.

Her language is that of compounding. Difficult to get from no-success to first success but easier to get first success to tenth success. The universe will reward you with more success once it realizes you have your first success. And the more success you have, the more the units will reward you with. Yet, if you have none, it will not reward you with any or more.

Why does the universe work that way?

It behaves that way for varying reasons. The reason I intend to focus on here is the idea of mimetic behaviour of humans popularized by René Girard.

The mimetic theory says we get our desires from society. We want it because others have it. That creates a form of scarcity and invariably chaos.

Scarcity is the way humans interpret value.

If it’s scarce, it must be valuable. We often forget (or refuse to note) that it is only scarce in the first place because we all want the same thing.

However, that behaviour is what keeps the economic wheel rolling so there’s no ending to it. It is only important that you and I learn what’s at work behind the wheel.

Success at one thing creates that illusion of scarcity as well. Suddenly, everyone wants YOUR success or wants to be associated with YOUR success if they’ve concluded they can’t have YOUR success.

That behaviour ordinarily opens the door to you for the next success.

That’s so because those coming after you and that you also allow in your environment have a form of success (that you also want or want to be associated with if you can’t have it) in them that can be easily leveraged for your next success.

They will willingly open those doors for you because (remember) they want to be associated with you or want your success just as you theirs.

Like I said, it keeps the wheel rolling so you can’t undo it.

Understanding it though is a leverage.

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